COMPLIMENT OR FLIRT?
Avoid demeaning comments, like complimenting a sexual body part. And a compliment must be appropriate. Like it’s rarely okay for a boss or employee to comment about the other’s appearance. Your intentions will be misunderstood.
Don’t compliment everyone the same exact way, or word will get around and everyone will feel you’re faking. Especially be aware of the difference between a compliment and a flirt – and keep them apart!
When you’re complimenting, wait for a response, smile sincerely, and stay a respectable distance away.
If you’re flirting, make more intense eye contact, smile more, move in a little closer and touch her lightly: “I love that scent you’re wearing (lean right in and sniff) — what is it?”
Complimenting doesn’t only improve your relationships, it also improves you. Making you more aware of the good in others — and in yourself.
Improving your confidence and positivity. So start practicing now. It’s an essential dating skill. And once you get married, it’ll be worth it’s weight in gold!
By CHRIS HART (Love and Relationship Expert)”